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Your wardrobe can be a reflection of the life you’re dreaming of — here’s how to dress for the version of yourself you’re becoming.
We all have a version of ourselves we’re working towards. The business mogul, the CEO, the top executive, the it-girl, or the baddie casually boarding a flight to the Bahamas for the weekend — you know that version of ourselves we can’t wait to become.
One of the fastest ways to get to a point or goal you have set for yourself is to dress up like the person you’re becoming. Doing this can make you feel like that girl long before you actually get there. It can even help open doors for you in the future.
There’s an old saying, “Dress the way you want to be addressed.” And while that’s usually about making a good impression, I like to think of it as dressing for your future self. Even if you haven’t reached that version of your life yet, you can start showing up as her today.
Call it real-time manifestation or delusion with a vision; either way, we’re dressing for the life we’re working towards. So, if you want to embody these identities through fashion, consider this your guide.
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The rich auntie
Woman posing in a stylish pink and white patterned African bubu gown via Pinterest (original creator unknown). If this is your work, please contact us for proper credit The rich auntie aesthetic is one of the most coveted style personas, especially among younger women. She’s the aunt who always has the best advice, slips you money when no one is looking, and lets you get away with the things your parents would never approve of. She exudes warmth, generosity and just the right amount of mystery.
Dress the part
Think relaxed silhouettes that look expensive without doing too much. Flowing maxi dresses, bubus, wide-leg trousers, linen co-ords and elegant kaftans instantly evoke the rich auntie aesthetic.
Complete the look with oversized sunglasses, chunky gold jewellery, layered necklaces and a structured handbag. When it comes to footwear, comfort is key. Go for embellished flat sandals, low-heeled mules or sleek pointed flats. Above all, wear it with confidence. The true secret to the rich auntie vibe is the ease.
The media mogul/CEO
Professional woman sitting in chair with tablet via Pinterest (original creator unknown). If this is your work, please contact us for proper credit The modern CEO is no longer confined to stiff suits and sky-high heels. She dresses with intention, choosing pieces that command attention once she enters a room. The media mogul’s wardrobe is polished, practical and purposeful. Every outfit is carefully curated to communicate credibility and creativity, all while still reflecting her personal style.
Dress the part
Invest in sharp tailoring like structured blazers and wide-leg trousers. Midi dresses, crisp shirts and matching co-ords in premium fabrics are also good choices. Keep your palette sophisticated with neutral colours like black, navy, chocolate, cream, grey and white, adding a pop of colour where you want to.
Finish the outfit with sleek pointed-toe heels or loafers, a structured leather bag large enough for your laptop and notebook, understated gold or silver jewellery, and a watch.
The baddie
Chef Yo in a pink cutout dress against a city skyline via @tthatchefyo on Instagram When you think of the word baddie, a handful of celebrities immediately come to mind — Ayra Starr, Tyla, Doechii, SZA, and the list goes on. What makes these women “hot girls” is that they know how to dress and remain unapologetically expressive.
They wear what they want, when they want, and how they want, without worrying about the inevitable, “What will people say?” Their confidence is what pulls every look together, and that’s what truly defines the hot girl aesthetic.
Dress the part
Your outfits should include pieces that make you feel comfortable, confident and truly yourself. Opt for figure-flattering silhouettes, statement dresses, coordinated sets, mini skirts, oversized jackets, wide-leg jeans and elevated basics that can be styled in multiple ways. Don’t be afraid to experiment with colour, texture or prints. For shoes, you can go with sleek trainers, knee-high boots or strappy heels, depending on the occasion. Finish with jewellery, a statement handbag, trendy sunglasses and a face beat that takes the look to a new level.
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The luxury traveller
t: Monochrome cream airport fashion via Pinterest (original creator unknown). If this is your work, please contact us for proper credit If you’re looking to be the girl who spends more time in airport lounges than at home, then your wardrobe should look ready for a work trip to Milan or a spontaneous escape to Zanzibar.
The luxury traveller’s style is all about versatility, ease and, most importantly, comfort.
Dress the part
Elevated airport outfits, coordinated linen sets, oversized shirts and breathable fabrics should form the foundation of your jet-set wardrobe. Invest in matching sets and chic separates that will also work when you get to your destination. Complete the look with sunglasses, a quality carry-all tote, comfortable trainers or sandals, minimal jewellery and, if you’re feeling extra, matching luggage to complete the aesthetic.
The new money heiress
Woman in a black tweed mini dress via Pinterest (original creator unknown). If this is your work, please contact us for proper credit The new money aesthetic represents ambition, achievement and enjoying the fruits of your labour. You want to dress in a way that highlights your success (or success incoming) with statement pieces and luxurious fabrics.
You worked hard, reached new heights and created the life you dreamed of. Your wardrobe should reflect that journey through a style that proudly announces your success.
Dress the part
Prioritise tailoring over trend-led pieces. Your rotation should include crisp white shirts, cashmere knits, well-cut trousers, pleated midi skirts, linen separates and blazers. You can also throw in RTW pieces from your favourite Nigerian brands. Complete the look with heels, loafers or ballet flats. Finish with refined jewellery such as pearl earrings, a slim gold watch or delicate diamond studs.
The It-girl
Olandria via @olandria on Instagram The it-girl never looks like she’s trying too hard, yet somehow everyone wants to know where she got her outfit. She’s always one step ahead of the trends, and she mixes everyday essentials with notable brands to create looks that are current and unique.
Dress the part
Your go-to pieces should include basics that can be styled in endless ways, then add a few trend-led pieces each season to keep your outfits fresh. Denim, oversized blazers, fitted tanks, maxi skirts, tailored trousers, statement outerwear and dresses are all staples of the It Girl wardrobe. Complete the look with eye-catching accessories, a stylish handbag, sandals or heels, and jewellery that adds personality.
The power of dressing the part
Dressing for the life you want is about using fashion as a way to express who you’re becoming, not pretending to be someone you’re not. The right outfit has a way of shifting your energy and allowing different parts of your personality to shine. Your dream life may not happen overnight, but there’s nothing wrong with dressing like the person you’re working towards becoming. After all, confidence is the foundation of every great outfit.
Additionally, style is part fantasy, part confidence and all about self-expression. So wear the outfit, embrace the aesthetic and dress for every version of you that you want to be.
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